Destination Wedding Guide: Berlin, Germany

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I love Germany.  I’ve been there about 10 times, and lived there for a bit a few years ago.  The history, the culture, the people, the architecture – it’s all amazingly easy to soak up.  Berlin is modern, yet traditional.  Make sure when you do go to set aside at least half of a day to just walk around the city with no destination in mind.  You’ll love it.  Viel Spass!

Tourist Hot Spot

The Berlin Wall & Checkpoint Charlie

Germany has such a deep, difficult, yet interesting history and Berlin seems to be the hub of what we all think about when we think of Germany – World War II & East vs West.  The Berlin Wall and Checkpoint Charlie are, the most iconic symbols of that era.  While most of the Wall was destroyed when it came down, there are a few sections still remaining.  There’s one near Checkpoint Charlie, so you can be sure to see both.

Off the Beaten Path

Grosser Wannsee

Most people don’t think of water and beach when they think of Berlin, but if you want a little time to relax and catch some sun, head over to Grosser Wannsee, which is a large lake in the city of Berlin.  It’s a great escape within the city – especially during the hot summer months.  The lake is actually quite large and offers many waters sports and even lake cruises.

Local food

Gluhwein

Instead of food, we’re recommending a wine – Gluhwein.  You can’t get Gluhwein year round, so if you’re in Berlin in late November to early January, you’re in luck (it usually makes an appearance during the holidays).  Essentially, Gluhwein is a mulled red wine that’s infused with different spices like cinnamon, cloves, vanilla and citrus.  It’s served hot so don’t be surprised.  The easiest way to find Gluhwein is to walk to the nearest Christmas Market, where there will be tons of vendors offering it.  And then do a little shopping.

Splurge Hotel

Hotel de Rome

This Rocco Forte Hotel is the meeting between old and new.  Built in 2006 in the former office of a German bank, the exterior is full of traditional and ornate details, yet inside has been transformed into a modern, luxury hotel that sits in the Mitte (or “Middle) section of Berlin.  With 146 guest rooms, the hotel offers guests a range of classic rooms to a terrace suite, as well as a full fitness center and day spa.  The hotel also offers a Concierge team that is available to help you with anything you might need during your stay.  So if you’re looking for a reservation at the hottest restaurant or club in Berlin, work with your Concierge.

Bang for your Buck Hotel

Grand Hotel Esplanade

If you like modern and sophisticated designs, then the Grand Hotel Esplanade is a hotel for you.  The hotel is located next to the Tiergarten area of Berlin, you’re right in the middle of Berlin’s cultural district with easy access to museums, theaters and shopping.  While the Grand Hotel Esplanade is a full-service hotel, including a day spa, you won’t pay 5-star hotel prices.  It’s our value pick!

Best Wedding Reception Venue

Palais am Festungsgraben

Palais am Festungsgraben sits in the heart of Berlin and definitely has that old world feel that much of Berlin has.  With several different areas for your wedding reception, this wedding venue has the capacity for small parties in one of its boardrooms or it can accommodate up to 150 wedding guests for a seated reception in the Marmorsaal, or Marble Hall, ballroom.  The stunning ballroom has marble columns throughout the ballroom adding a sense of luxury and richness throughout the space.  Typically couples are not permitted to get married outside of the Registrar’s Office, but Palasis am Festungsgraben has an exclusive satellite Registrar’s Office, making it possible to have your ceremony and your reception here.  Big benefit.

Cultural Considerations

If you think New Yorkers walk fast and with a purpose, be aware – Germans walk faster, so if you can’t keep up, walk off to the side.  And another tidbit about Germans, they are very “puenktlich,” as they say – or very prompt.  If you have an appointment with vendors, arrive a few minutes early so you’re on time.

Marriage Requirements

Having a legal wedding ceremony in Germany is a little different than here in the US.  If you wish to have a legal wedding, the ceremony will actually take place at the Registrar’s Office (Standesamt).  Otherwise, it’s not legal (unless you get married at Palais am Festungsgraben that has a satellite office onsite).  Because requirements differ between towns, it’s best to make an appointment with the registrar’s office close to you in Berlin to review documentation and requirements.  However, take note that it will take at least 21 days to process the paperwork.

You will definitely need to take your birth certificate issued within the last 6 months, so you will likely need to obtain a new one before you head to Germany.  You will also need to complete an Apostille form.  On top of this you will have to complete the Ehefähigkeitszeugnis, which indicates you’re not married to someone else.